You're a Chemical Kid, I'm a Mechanical Bride, I really need your help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. We’re both each others first partner. He used to text me cute messages and text me all of the time. He doesn’t do that as much anymore. I just feel like he doesn’t like me as much anymore. What’s your opinion about the whole dilemma?

I really need your help. My boyfriend and I have been dating for about 3 months. We're both each others first partner. He used to text me cute messages and text me all of the time. He doesn't do that as much anymore. I just feel like he doesn't like me as much anymore. What's your opinion about the whole dilemma?

Anonymous

Ahhh I’m very familiar with this kinda shit. Okay. I’m pretty sure he still loves you/likes you or he wouldn’t be with you anymore. But sometimes when guys are in relationships, at first they’re superrr cute and do A LOT to get your attention. And then after you’ve been tg for a while, they start to think “Ohh I don’t have to do those kinds of things anymore, I already have them” but that’s not true. My boyfriend and I had a problem kiiiinnndddaa like this, and we talked about it. Communication is the key. I straight up told him that I felt like he didn’t care as much or love me as much because he wasn’t as over-the-top as he used to be. And he said that it was because sometimes guys feel like they have to stop being super cute after awhile (well he didn’t say it in those words) and that he still loved me as much and everything. And I told him it made me feel un-loved and he’s back to being as he was before (: When you’re in a relationship you need to talk to eachother about ANYTHING that the other does that bothers you or they’ll never know to stop. So my personal opinion is that he still feels the same, he’s just been a typical, oblivious guy. Talk to him a little. Say you feel like he just dosen’t care as much as he used to. & Lemme know what happens, I hope I helped love (: